Ramona was widowed when her 38-year old husband died suddenly of a massive stroke, leaving her with two children under ten years old to raise on her own.
Publicly I was the good widow.
Every death comes with gifts.
Every loss every end comes with a gift.
Get your mind off of yourself for a little while. That’s really what you need.
You are not alone in this world.
When grieving, if you get up, make your bed, take a shower and get dressed you’ve done enough for the day.
You will never be the same person you were before it happened.
You have to give yourself the time and the freedom to grieve not only the loss of that but the loss of who you were and accept the new person you are.
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