Linda: Widowed at 45

January 7, 2019









You can’t skip over the grief.

I learned to be me again.

You have to generate your own joy.

You have to be whole before you’re free to pursue that new relationship or even know if you want a new relationship or not.

We continue to evolve, but the core of who we are doesn’t really change.

I’d gotten very comfortable in my marriage that I was going to be taken care of.

I had to go around the world and try a few things out to realize I was doing exactly what I was meant to do all along.

It has always been my goal when I write something that that will help someone else feel less alone.

Feel sad but don’t stay stuck there.

Get involved in something outside of yourself.

One of the worst things you can do is isolate yourself and live in your little pity party.

Rediscover some of the things you haven’t had time for while in a relationship.

It’s a growth process.

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